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Ep 243 – 5 Unspoken Rules EVERY Corporate Women Knows (That Nobody Tells You When You're Hired)
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SIGH. How are we still having to talk about this!?
There are rules in corporate that nobody writes down… but every woman learns the hard way.
In this episode, I’m breaking down 5 unspoken rules every corporate woman knows—the ones that quietly shape your reputation, your promotions, and how seriously you’re taken at work. From navigating likeability vs. competence, to understanding how perception impacts your growth, these are the career realities that HR doesn’t warn you about (but absolutely matter).
If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything “right” but still not getting ahead, this episode will help you understand what’s actually going on behind the scenes—and how to play the game without losing yourself.
Whether you're early in your career or already in the workforce, this is your guide to corporate survival, office politics, and getting ahead as a woman at work.
5 days ago • 39m 59s •
Ep 242 – Office Gossip: my bob Is a fireable offence
URGENT OFFICE GOSISP SESSION!
You may have seen a little bit on my Instagram stories, but I really needed to gossip with my team (you!) about this week. All I am going to say is- we need to debrief on the bob that is ruining my life.
Thankfully hair grows back and it isn't that serious but lol- I needed to rant!
9 days ago • 11m 22s
Ep 241 – You’re Not Crazy for Wanting More (how to reinvent your entire life & career with Alessia Sculpt)
What happens when your life looks perfect on paper… but feels completely wrong?
In today’s episode, I’m joined by Alessia Scauzillo — the creator behind Alessia Sculpt — who went from a high-performing career in corporate finance to completely rebuilding her life, career, and identity from the ground up.
Alessia is a wellness creator and founder of A Sculpt Body, where she’s built a community centered around balanced fitness, body confidence, and creating a life that actually feels good — not just one that looks good on paper.
In this conversation, we get into:
how to know when you’ve outgrown your life
the difference between being “fine” vs actually fulfilled
leaving a relationship, a career, or an identity that no longer fits
making decisions that feel terrifying… but necessary
and what it really looks like to start over
If you’ve been sitting with that gut feeling that something isn’t right — this episode is your sign.
12 days ago • 35m 6s
Ep 240 – How to sound senior AF (when you're junior AF)
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Ever feel like you have good ideas… but the second you speak in a meeting you suddenly sound junior?
In this episode, I’m breaking down the communication shifts that helped me sound more credible and more strategic early in my career — even when I didn’t have the title yet. I’ll walk you through how to stop over-explaining, stop asking for unnecessary validation, and start speaking in a way that signals leadership potential.
Because sounding confident at work isn’t about being the loudest person in the room — it’s about being the clearest. If you want to be taken seriously before your experience fully catches up, this episode is for you.
19 days ago • 41m 25s
Ep 239 – 3 EASY ways to get noticed on LinkedIn (without it being weird)
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LinkedIn doesn’t have to feel awkward, performative, or painfully corporate. In this episode, I’m breaking down 3 simple, strategic ways to get noticed on LinkedIn — without sounding cringey, self-obsessed, or like you’re trying too hard.
Whether you’re job searching, building a personal brand, or quietly positioning yourself for your next big opportunity, visibility matters more than you think. The good news? You don’t need viral posts or fake thought-leadership to stand out.
You’ll learn: • The easiest way to increase profile visibility (that almost no one is doing consistently) • How to engage in a way that builds real professional relationships • A subtle positioning shift that makes recruiters and decision-makers take you seriously
If you’ve ever wondered how some people seem to “magically” attract opportunities online — this episode will show you the strategy behind it.
26 days ago • 24m 17s •
Ep 238 – Stop Taking Everything So Personally: Celebrity Stylist Lo VonRumpf on Dressing for Work & Staying Unbothered
So... we are all OBSESSED with Lo, right? Get more of Lo:
http://lvrstyle.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stylelvr/?hl=en
The Lo Life Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lo-life/id1514680476
In this episode, Emily sits down with Lorenzo VonRumpf — celebrity stylist and founder of LVR STYLE — to talk about the career skills no one teaches you.
From dressing in a way that actually supports your professional brand, to learning how to stop taking everything at work personally, Lo shares the mindset and personal branding strategies that help people stand out in competitive industries. With years of experience shaping the public image of executives, athletes, and television personalities, he explains why how you present yourself matters more than people think — and how to use it to your advantage.
Emily and Lo also discuss how to stay confident around difficult personalities, why emotional resilience is a career superpower, and the subtle ways personal style can influence how seriously you're taken at work.
If you've ever wondered how to look the part, build a stronger personal brand, and stay unbothered while doing it, this conversation is for you.
33 days ago • 27m 48s •
Ep 109 – How to Hate Your Job a Little Less (without quitting because the market is f*cked up)
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You don’t need to love your job. You just need to hate it a little less.
In this episode, we’re talking about the reality no one posts on LinkedIn: sometimes your job isn’t toxic, it’s just… draining. And quitting isn’t always the smartest move.
If you feel stuck, underwhelmed, underpaid, or just mildly resentful Monday through Friday — this is for you.
We’ll break down: • Why “do what you love” is terrible career advice • How to separate burnout from boredom • Small strategic shifts that increase leverage (without blowing up your income) • The difference between a bad job and bad boundaries
40 days ago • 36m 57s •
Ep 108 – You're scared of taking time off (I fear you have presenteeism)
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You’re scared to take time off.
Not because you’re “so busy.”Not because the timing is bad.Not because your job is uniquely demanding.
You’re scared.
In this episode, we’re talking about the real reason employees avoid taking sick days and vacation — even when they’re burned out, exhausted, or literally sick. From unused PTO and presenteeism to work anxiety and fear of being replaceable, we’re unpacking why so many high performers would rather work sick than log off.
If you’ve ever:
- Logged on while sick
- Left paid time off unused
- Felt guilty booking vacation
- Told yourself “now’s not a good time” for the 12th time
This one’s for you.
We’ll break down the psychology behind taking time off, the workplace culture that fuels burnout, and what it actually signals when you’re afraid to step away.
Because not using your sick days or vacation isn’t loyalty.
It’s fear.
And it’s costing you more than you think.
47 days ago • 27m 29s
Ep 237 – PLEASE ignore this career advice in 2026 (I beg)
In this episode of Clock In, we’re breaking down the worst career advice people are still giving in 2026 — and exactly why I’m ignoring it.
From outdated corporate loyalty myths to toxic productivity culture and “just wait your turn” energy, we’re unpacking the advice that keeps smart, ambitious people underpaid, overworked, and stuck.
If you’re navigating the job market, negotiating salary, building your personal brand, or trying to grow your career without burning out — this episode is your permission slip to stop following rules that were never designed for you to win.
54 days ago • 27m 48s
Ep 236 – Your job is made up & we float on a rock (what is and isn't worth stressing about at work)
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Is your job stressing you out more than it should?
In this episode, we break down why work can feel overwhelming, how workplace pressure is often manufactured, and what actually is worth caring about in your career. Learn how to set boundaries at work, stop overidentifying with your job, and focus on what truly impacts your long-term career growth, mental health, and financial stability.
If you struggle with workplace anxiety, burnout, perfectionism, or feeling like every mistake is the end of the world, this episode will help you reset your perspective and protect your peace while still being successful.
61 days ago • 27m 54s •
About the show
Emily Durham, aka Emily The Recruiter, is a globally recognized career expert on a mission to help you thrive in your 9-to-5… and beyond. On Clock In, Emily spills the once gatekept industry secrets on everything from job hunting, interviews, networking, office politics, and salary negotiation — to building unshakable confidence, navigating tricky bosses, and even handling the dating world with the same skills that get you hired. Whether you’re chasing a promotion, asking for more money, or just trying to feel like your best self in and out of work, Emily’s no-fluff, no-nonsense advice will help you get ahead without losing your mind.
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