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Ep 239 – 3 EASY ways to get noticed on LinkedIn (without it being weird)
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LinkedIn doesn’t have to feel awkward, performative, or painfully corporate. In this episode, I’m breaking down 3 simple, strategic ways to get noticed on LinkedIn — without sounding cringey, self-obsessed, or like you’re trying too hard.
Whether you’re job searching, building a personal brand, or quietly positioning yourself for your next big opportunity, visibility matters more than you think. The good news? You don’t need viral posts or fake thought-leadership to stand out.
You’ll learn: • The easiest way to increase profile visibility (that almost no one is doing consistently) • How to engage in a way that builds real professional relationships • A subtle positioning shift that makes recruiters and decision-makers take you seriously
If you’ve ever wondered how some people seem to “magically” attract opportunities online — this episode will show you the strategy behind it.
1 days ago • 24m 17s •
Ep 238 – Stop Taking Everything So Personally: Celebrity Stylist Lo VonRumpf on Dressing for Work & Staying Unbothered
So... we are all OBSESSED with Lo, right? Get more of Lo:
http://lvrstyle.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stylelvr/?hl=en
The Lo Life Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lo-life/id1514680476
In this episode, Emily sits down with Lorenzo VonRumpf — celebrity stylist and founder of LVR STYLE — to talk about the career skills no one teaches you.
From dressing in a way that actually supports your professional brand, to learning how to stop taking everything at work personally, Lo shares the mindset and personal branding strategies that help people stand out in competitive industries. With years of experience shaping the public image of executives, athletes, and television personalities, he explains why how you present yourself matters more than people think — and how to use it to your advantage.
Emily and Lo also discuss how to stay confident around difficult personalities, why emotional resilience is a career superpower, and the subtle ways personal style can influence how seriously you're taken at work.
If you've ever wondered how to look the part, build a stronger personal brand, and stay unbothered while doing it, this conversation is for you.
8 days ago • 27m 48s •
Ep 109 – How to Hate Your Job a Little Less (without quitting because the market is f*cked up)
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You don’t need to love your job. You just need to hate it a little less.
In this episode, we’re talking about the reality no one posts on LinkedIn: sometimes your job isn’t toxic, it’s just… draining. And quitting isn’t always the smartest move.
If you feel stuck, underwhelmed, underpaid, or just mildly resentful Monday through Friday — this is for you.
We’ll break down: • Why “do what you love” is terrible career advice • How to separate burnout from boredom • Small strategic shifts that increase leverage (without blowing up your income) • The difference between a bad job and bad boundaries
15 days ago • 36m 57s •
Ep 108 – You're scared of taking time off (I fear you have presenteeism)
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You’re scared to take time off.
Not because you’re “so busy.”Not because the timing is bad.Not because your job is uniquely demanding.
You’re scared.
In this episode, we’re talking about the real reason employees avoid taking sick days and vacation — even when they’re burned out, exhausted, or literally sick. From unused PTO and presenteeism to work anxiety and fear of being replaceable, we’re unpacking why so many high performers would rather work sick than log off.
If you’ve ever:
- Logged on while sick
- Left paid time off unused
- Felt guilty booking vacation
- Told yourself “now’s not a good time” for the 12th time
This one’s for you.
We’ll break down the psychology behind taking time off, the workplace culture that fuels burnout, and what it actually signals when you’re afraid to step away.
Because not using your sick days or vacation isn’t loyalty.
It’s fear.
And it’s costing you more than you think.
22 days ago • 27m 29s
Ep 237 – PLEASE ignore this career advice in 2026 (I beg)
In this episode of Clock In, we’re breaking down the worst career advice people are still giving in 2026 — and exactly why I’m ignoring it.
From outdated corporate loyalty myths to toxic productivity culture and “just wait your turn” energy, we’re unpacking the advice that keeps smart, ambitious people underpaid, overworked, and stuck.
If you’re navigating the job market, negotiating salary, building your personal brand, or trying to grow your career without burning out — this episode is your permission slip to stop following rules that were never designed for you to win.
29 days ago • 27m 48s
Ep 236 – Your job is made up & we float on a rock (what is and isn't worth stressing about at work)
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Is your job stressing you out more than it should?
In this episode, we break down why work can feel overwhelming, how workplace pressure is often manufactured, and what actually is worth caring about in your career. Learn how to set boundaries at work, stop overidentifying with your job, and focus on what truly impacts your long-term career growth, mental health, and financial stability.
If you struggle with workplace anxiety, burnout, perfectionism, or feeling like every mistake is the end of the world, this episode will help you reset your perspective and protect your peace while still being successful.
36 days ago • 27m 54s •
Ep 235 – Office Celebrity Bootcamp (The Difference Between Being Seen and Being Taken Seriously)
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Being liked at work is not the same as being respected — and confusing the two can quietly stall your career.
In this episode, I break down the difference between being an office celebrity and a personality hire, why one leads to promotions, credibility, and career growth while the other often hits a ceiling, and how being “fun,” “easy,” or “great culture fit” at work can actually hurt your long-term professional reputation.
We talk about workplace visibility vs value, how managers really decide who gets promoted, why personality hires are often overlooked for leadership roles, and what to do if you feel visible at work but not taken seriously. This episode is especially for high performers who feel stuck despite working hard, getting praise, or being well liked by their team.
If you want to grow your career, earn respect at work, and stop being boxed into the personality hire role, this episode matters.
43 days ago • 48m 42s •
Ep 234 – Why You’re Always Feeling Behind: The Psychology of Toxic Productivity with Israa Nasir
If you’re ambitious, driven, and still feel like you’re constantly behind, this episode is for you.
In this episode of Clock In, I’m joined by Israa Nassir, therapist, writer, and mental health advocate, to break down toxic productivity — why high achievers are especially prone to it, and how ambition can quietly turn into anxiety, burnout, and chronic self-pressure.
We unpack:
- Why productivity culture makes even successful people feel like they’re failing
- How ambition gets tied to self-worth and identity
- Why rest feels uncomfortable (or even unsafe) for high performers
- How “doing more” becomes a coping mechanism, not a strategy
- What a healthier relationship with work actually looks like
If you’ve ever felt guilty for slowing down, anxious when you’re not being productive, or like no amount of success ever feels like enough — this conversation will help you understand why you feel this way, and how to start breaking the cycle.
About the guest:Israa Nassir is a therapist, speaker, and the author of Toxic Productivity. Her work focuses on burnout, emotional resilience, and unlearning hustle culture. You can learn more about her work at israanasir.com and pick up her book here: https://www.israanasir.com/toxic-productivity
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50 days ago • 40m 37s
Ep 233 – The January Scaries (+ HUGE LIFE UPDATES & WWED)
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AHHH! I AM NOT OVER THIS EPISODE! SO MUCH TO TELL YOU!!! But also.
January hits different. The motivation crash is real, the anxiety is loud, and suddenly everything feels… urgent. In this episode, we’re talking about The January Scaries — why they happen, why you’re not broken for feeling them, and how to calm your nervous system when the year feels like it’s already asking too much of you.
PLUS: huge life updates (the kind I’d only tell you) and a WWED (What Would Emily Do) segment where we get into real listener dilemmas — careers, confidence, boundaries, and the quiet panic of “am I doing enough with my life?”
If you’re feeling behind, overwhelmed, or weirdly emotional for no clear reason — this one’s for you.
57 days ago • 28m 3s •
Ep 232 – I don't know what I want to do with my life: The Career Mapping Guide
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If you feel behind, confused, or low-key panicked because you still don’t know what you want to do with your life — this episode is for you.
In today’s job market, the pressure to have a “dream career” figured out is unrealistic, outdated, and honestly… unhelpful. In this episode, I’m breaking down why not knowing your end goal isn’t the problem — and what you should be focusing on instead.
We’ll walk through a practical, no-BS career mapping framework that helps you move forward without needing a 10-year plan, a passion epiphany, or a quarter-life crisis meltdown.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- Why “finding your passion” is terrible career advice
- How to build career momentum even when you feel lost
- The difference between a career goal and a career direction
- How to make smart next moves without locking yourself into the wrong path
- What to focus on when you don’t know your long-term plan — but still want to make more money, gain confidence, and stop feeling stuck
This episode is your permission slip to stop spiraling, stop comparing, and start making strategic moves that actually compound over time.
You don’t need to know what you want to do with your life, you just need a map.
64 days ago • 41m 22s •
About the show
Emily Durham, aka Emily The Recruiter, is a globally recognized career expert on a mission to help you thrive in your 9-to-5… and beyond. On Clock In, Emily spills the once gatekept industry secrets on everything from job hunting, interviews, networking, office politics, and salary negotiation — to building unshakable confidence, navigating tricky bosses, and even handling the dating world with the same skills that get you hired. Whether you’re chasing a promotion, asking for more money, or just trying to feel like your best self in and out of work, Emily’s no-fluff, no-nonsense advice will help you get ahead without losing your mind.
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